So I also happened to have a first date today.
It was with ctwm. Think I'm in love.
Long time dwm user, will be switching to ctwm on my daily driver for a month or two to see wether this will develop into a longterm relationship or if it just was a quick fling.
Despite dwm already being bare bones, ctwm is lighter on resources and feels snappier on my ROCKPro64. Oh, and ctwm is now the default wm on NetBSD Arm (-current) - Thanks @nia